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A Parent’s Confession is Good for More than One Soul

Nothing harms relationships more than trying to perpetuate the perception of perfection. That is my quote. It demonstrates why it’s so healthy— and necessary— for us to maintain a sense of humor about ourselves, and even to laugh at ourselves now and then. This “perfection” principle is proven in every facet of life. Yet parenthood provides some of the most compelling evidence …

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Signs of the Times

Signs are designed to catch our attention. They alert us to danger or promote some product. Some signs, however, defy understanding. The following are signs found in real life: On a bag of Fritos: “You could be a winner! No purchase necessary. Details inside.” On packaging for a Rowenta Iron: “Do not iron clothes on body.” On a Korean kitchen …

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The Only Refuge That Will Not Fail

We all struggle with identity—who we are, why we are, and what we have to offer this vast, broken world. About the time we find a scrap of worth or significance, something happens to make us fully aware of how much we lack. A harsh word. A broken relationship. A blunder or failure. Then, in spite of our best efforts …

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Wedding Vows

Happy Lighten Up Monday! If you wrote your own vows at your wedding, you’ll probably relate to this clip from my friend, Bob Smiley. [youtube id=”7L_wkhYFvsM”]

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What the World Needs Now

This year’s political race often reminded me of the squabbles of my children. As we would ride to church, they would sit in the back seat and fight over senseless things, hurling personal insults at one another. This is my side of the car! You are breathing on my side of the car! Her breath stinks! She’s looking at me! …