How I Stayed Married for 46 Years!

The big day! 46 years ago!

The big day! 46 years ago!

Yesterday as I was having breakfast with my wife Diane, I received a text from my daughter.  The text said, “Congratulations dad, on your 46th anniversary.”

I had totally forgotten! I involuntarily made a sound like a rabbit being stepped on by a hippo. I looked up to see Diane stifling a giggle behind her hand.  “Happy Anniversary,” I said, stepping around the table to give her a hug and a sheepish apology.  This was not the first time in 46 years I had forgotten important occasions.

“Why have you stayed married to me for 46 years?”  I asked.  Still laughing, this is what she answered….

Keep Counting the Moments and Making the Moments Count!

iStock_000025246969XSmallLast night the second hand ticked toward midnight as millions of people counted down  5 – 4 – 3 – 2 – 1 toward the New Year.  Then celebrations and fireworks erupted all over the world.  In the midst of the celebration people stopped counting…but the countdown continued anyway.  Each of us has only so many days on this earth and the seconds are counting down until those days are over.  There are really only four things that will make 2014 and the rest of the moments in our lives meaningful.

Can You Say These Three Important Words?

I need help! This will make more sense if you first read my post “Three of the Hardest Words in the English Language,”  written last week.  In that post I proposed three common scenarios where “Three Words” could possibly have changed the outcome.

I also included the story of a young man who learned to say those words early and often. His wisdom helped him build stronger relationships and establish an exciting career. Here are what some of you guessed the words might be.

Confessions of a Love Sick Dad!

It’s lighten up Monday! In this clip, I talk about  life’s bottom line to 11,000 adults and a stage full of teenagers. Enjoy!


The central message of the Bible is the Creator of the universe telling us, “I love you.” His central message to us is, “Show love to each other.”

Without love there is no life.

Is there someone you need to say,”I love you” to?
How have the words “I love you” changed your life?